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Tess Dixon's avatar

I kid you not, there is one single tear falling from my left eye as I type this comment. My oldest is not yet 11 and I already feel a tightness in my chest any time I notice things change between us, slowly and steadily.

Thank you for articulating that annoyance with "adult children" in movies...I feel like Bill Murray's character in Rushmore is the only one of these I ever really liked. Maybe because the film full-on calls him out for his childishness, and because of how genuinely comical it is.

I remember getting so sick of people saying "Better enjoy it now because your life is about to be over!" when I was pregnant. I hate those types of platitudes. And I think a big part of my life was actually just beginning at that time. How lucky I've been.

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Ah, thank you Lou. That's a very good point about this being a big test of what we've got right and wrong. And interesting about the upsides and downsides of having one who stays in touch a lot. The Rumpelstiltskin tactic isn't comic exaggeration, I'm actually having to do it! I heartily recommend the film, would be interested to hear what you think. Hope your youngest settles happily soon - leaving home is one thing, leaving home to attend a massive community full of thousands of similar-age people is something else again, and doing all of that after the Covid Years must be a proper head-masher.

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