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Lou Tilsley's avatar

I hadn’t heard about this but I’m definitely going to look it up. I think I will need to be in the right mood though, so perhaps not immediately. You are so right about the taboo surrounding women’s bodies. It often feels effortful to articulate female experience. In primary school one of the aims of the RSE (relationships and sex education) syllabus is to introduce and normalise the use of the language of male and female anatomy without stigma or embarrassment. It’s surprisingly hard to do, even with ten year olds but is definitely a step in the right direction.

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Amy Gray's avatar

The former Tory MP Theo Clarke goes into exactly this level of detail in her new book, Breaking the Taboo. She describes her birth injuries using the correct words and describes exactly what happened to her, and shares a number of other women's stories too. When she spoke about her experiences in the House of Commons and led a Parliamentary inquiry into birth trauma, I felt like it empowered news organisations to write about it more, and not before time. Her book is a very tough read but it's incredibly brave.

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